Your world with Dr. Beatrice Hyppolite
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I am Dr. Marie Beatrice Hyppolite. I hold a doctorate in Health Science with emphasis on Global Health and master’s degree in social work. I have over 14 years of experience in the field of health and human services.
This podcast is primarily focused on mental health and the quality-of-life elements that affect it such as divorce, death, domestic violence, trauma, toxic relationships, and single parenthood to name a few. It is no secret that mental health challenges continue to profoundly impact modern society although not enough discussion is given due to stigma. Research has shown an increase of 25 % in mental health crises after COVID-19. It is important to have honest, uncomfortable conversations about mental health while being supportive. Although we are interdependent, change begins with the individual, hence “your world.”
I welcome you to join me on my journey and look forward to your responses.
Your world with Dr. Beatrice Hyppolite
Age Gap Relationships: Navigating Incompatibility
What makes two people truly compatible? In this candid, thought-provoking conversation, Dr. Beatrice Hyppolite and Pastor Brevil cut through conventional wisdom to explore the complex dimensions of relationship compatibility that many couples never discuss until it's too late.
Age gap relationships take center stage as the speakers examine how differences in life stages create unique challenges. "You almost don't have the same vision when you are 50 and when you are 35," Pastor Brevil notes, highlighting how these differences manifest in expectations, priorities, and communication styles. But rather than dismissing age-gap relationships, the discussion offers nuanced perspectives on how couples can navigate these differences successfully.
The conversation boldly ventures into territory many relationship discussions avoid—sexual compatibility, medical factors, and spiritual differences. Pastor Brevil advocates for pre-marital compatibility testing beyond the superficial, including medical screenings and honest discussions about sexual expectations. With remarkable candor, they address how unspoken incompatibilities in these areas often lead to relationship breakdown, anxiety, and depression when left unaddressed.
Perhaps most valuable is their exploration of the four pillars that form the foundation of any healthy relationship: communication, fidelity, sincerity, and honesty. "These four things must be reciprocated," Pastor Breville emphasizes, offering listeners a practical framework for assessing compatibility in their own relationships. The speakers balance cultural sensitivity with scientific understanding, religious wisdom with practical advice.
Whether you're considering a new relationship, navigating challenges in your current one, or helping others understand compatibility issues, this episode provides insights that go far beyond typical relationship advice. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear that compatibility is something we build together, not just something we find.
Hello everyone, I'm Dr Beatrice Hippolyte and this is your World.
Speaker 2:The incompatibility of character. Forgetting that means that character doesn't work at all. It's the character that makes you win. If you take the other person, you win. If you don't, you will lose you almost don't have the same vision. You almost don't have the same vision when you are a girl of 50 and a little girl of 35. So a good incompatibility that we have in our relationship because you are there. No matter what your marriage is, you have to be there.
Speaker 1:Socially, the man comes to me and not everything because young men? They are 35, I myself am 50 years old and the man wants to be in the best shape because sometimes he doesn't even want to wear a bikini. He has a talent that he doesn't want to wear yet and he doesn't need it for the social work, but he doesn't even know what he's doing.
Speaker 2:He doesn't need to go to the social worker's office, but they are not allowed to go to the social worker's office. Exactly If a woman from a business or a high-class family, you know that she is not allowed to go to the social worker's office, you know that she is not allowed to go to the social worker's office.
Speaker 1:You know that she is not allowed to go to the social worker's office.
Speaker 2:Do you see it as?
Speaker 1:wrong.
Speaker 2:Yes, despite the fact that he assumed to do what he did, for example, president Macron, together with Madame Nde you know Madame Nde, the beautiful lady there. In addition, then, it means that she saw Madame Nde's balloon in the plane and everything for a relax. She took a balloon in the plane. But if you say that to make fun of them, it was a reality Because, on the other hand, if someone is filming you, the need is to show it. To show it, and what do you think? I understand, you don't have to talk to people.
Speaker 1:Yes, even the reality is that I thought I was going to meet Well, I was going to meet someone, but I didn't. I was making a meeting. I was making a meeting, but I didn't say that I was making acquaintances because it was a social place. And then here I am, a 28-year-old man and a 54-year-old woman, and that woman is looking for a young man, but a young man who is reticent about what he is doing. But then I saw him and I say that's mean, Madam, I want to give you my word. You understand a series of realities, a series of confessions that you don't want to have, as if for me to speak about you or to say that I'm not interested in you.
Speaker 2:I'm not saying that you are a doctor, Beatrice. You are a doctor under interest period. Don't say that to me. I'm not saying that you should not have a relationship with someone who is not in love. It's not love at all. I'm not saying that you should not have a relationship with someone who is 28 years old, Because there are people who are more than 28 years old.
Speaker 1:But don't take it so far. You have to put your head where it's supposed to go. No, you have to put your head where it's supposed to go. You have to know where it's supposed to go. So if you fall into the same sexual, even if we are not in the middle of it, 50 to 24, it's already been done.
Speaker 2:It's not even done yet In scientific analysis. It's only the market's part. When people gain relationships we take, for example, haitian legislation before marriage they have to be in social welfare and then they have to be in a social environment and then they have to do tests. And then they ask themselves is it blood pressure? How is it? Have they been vaccinated? They have to do other tests HIV tests. They do everything they can, and then they have to get a certificate, they have to get a passport, they have to get a plan. First of all, they have to do everything they can.
Speaker 2:I fell in love in past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past. I was born in the past.
Speaker 2:I or girls who have been born with infertility that can cause this disease. On the other hand, women who have been suffering from this since their young age have been suffering from this and all of this has not worked. This is a medical aspect. Another aspect is that there is this type of blood that I will not mention I will not say the exact word of this. That has not worked with this type of blood. On the other hand, I will not take any medicine because I will not have any cancer. That's why I can't walk with such a blood group, because if I do it, I will not be able to get out of it. That's why I don't need to go to a place where I can see people, where there are people who have a lot of pain, but I can't go there and see them all.
Speaker 1:Yes, biologically.
Speaker 2:I can't walk there Because you are fighting against yourself. Yes, biologically you are not going to work. The fact that you are neglecting this when you come to these discussions that you have made in your life because incompatibility has been there for a long time it's because you don't have the right to be a doctor. You have medical problems. It's because we don't have the right doctors.
Speaker 1:You have medical problems, but you have mental problems that you can't solve.
Speaker 2:Yes, we have mental problems. We have a good gender Because we have to go to the doctor, because there are people who are bipolar. I want to see people who are like that. Before they pass away, they live. I want to see people who are straight. I want to see people who are like that, or people who are like that or like that, people who are like that or like that. We can't be on the same side. We have to be face to face to communicate, or we have to be like that to communicate because we look alike, like if I had a girlfriend, I would have a girlfriend, if I didn't, I would have a girlfriend. It poses a problem. So when a couple, in their sexual activity, in their aspect of dating, do during the marriage, sometimes it's not treated since the beginning. What do you think about it, dr Beatrice? It's not that. It's not good for your health, right?
Speaker 1:It's normal. But you know, especially in our culture it's taboo, but in our culture the I don't know if you like it, but I like it.
Speaker 2:You're bluffing.
Speaker 1:I'm bluffing exactly.
Speaker 2:I'm bluffing, I'm bluffing, I'm bluffing, I'm bluffing, I'm bluffing, I'm bluffing, I'm bluffing, I'm bluffing.
Speaker 1:I'm bluffing.
Speaker 2:I'm bluffing. I'm bluffing to remove the guilt from the earth.
Speaker 1:it's not a problem, it's just hypocrisy. No, no, I'm not talking about that Hypocrisy.
Speaker 2:Hypocrisy. I like that. No, it's just that. So let's see what is being said in relation to the aspect of sexuality that has a relationship with fertility. When we are with people, we say that this has been treated for a long time. If you take care of a gynecologist, it's hard to come to that point. Is it a general check-up? Because it's normal every year. You have to do that. The father't have to go to the doctor. They decide to do their activities. They have to do it locally. They have to accompany them. They can't see the medical results. What I want to ask is that we do a blood compatibility test. I'm not with my clairvoyant, I'm not with my doctor. We have to know, normally, we have to know that is the blood compatibility. Do you have sex Because you have to marry with us without us having to celebrate? Is it the guy who drinks with us? Is it the expedition? Is it the one who goes to Haiti or is it the one who has sex with us all day long? We have to call them all the time, right.
Speaker 1:I will give you a little parenthesis. I will give you a quick example. There are two people I know. They have been in a relationship for 15 years. They have been separated for a long time.
Speaker 2:Maybe you have incompatibilities in that.
Speaker 1:That's how I justified what I said.
Speaker 2:So that's the first part of sexual activity. The other part of sexual activity is that is it. It's not a quick answer because there are big subjects that I want to ask you have you ever had a girl? When we talk about orgasm, you have never had an orgasm at the same time. Yes yes, it's very unfortunate, because he is a partner, he is a winner. He doesn't know anything about sex. The Pultal has a book called Kamasutra that explains his position. He felt the evil, he felt the sin.
Speaker 1:Yes, it's a bad thing.
Speaker 2:It's a bad thing While, yes, it's a bad thing. It's a bad thing While Apostle Paul spoke to the people of Corinth, when he says that the husband has no authority over his own body, it is the woman, Just as the woman has no authority over her own body, it is the husband. So I suppose that we have a body or we think that you are a man or a woman. You have to know who is good and who is able to satisfy others. I talk to people who are married, because I have a wife who is married to a man like that. We are in the same field because that's what we preach.
Speaker 1:Yes, we are pastors, pastor who supports the people, but when you talk to people.
Speaker 2:you don't have to be a convoiter because, excuse me, dr Beatrice, I want to be a pastor. I want to use the language of the pastor. I always find myself like that. You don't have to be a convoiter to look at people's eyes, to look at their face when you talk to them. But if you want to know the facts, you have to converse with each other, look at each other. We don't have to be in love, but if we want to decide, we have to talk about it. We have to know, because the first objective in a relationship is to satisfy the other person from a sexual point of view. It's a lot of things.
Speaker 1:But, pastor Breville, I don't want to say that I don't want to see you, although I don't want to encourage people who are not married to engage in this activity.
Speaker 2:But, a lot of people who are married to a man who is not a man. I'm not saying that we should change the subject of incompatibility with sex in marriage. I say that in Haiti we must do tests first, when we have a test that releases a spermogram, who makes a sperm if it is not an erection? What do you think, dr Beatrice? Do people keep it here?
Speaker 1:Yes, it's for people who are enlightened to use science. No, when we have it here.
Speaker 2:That's what makes it so. It's hot, it's enlightened here. So even if people don't keep it here, that's why it's hot and clear here. So even if people don't want to be cleared, they have to stay warm. They have to be cleared anyway.
Speaker 1:Amen.
Speaker 2:Because you have to be able to do a spermogram. If you do a spermogram you can do an analysis. Sperm is equivalent to spermatozoids that gain their own ejaculation. Because this amount of sperm enters the body to the violin to get it? Because we don't eat it, because the sperm in the body doesn't get it.
Speaker 1:I think, if I'm not mistaken, I have done 72,000 to get it, and it's them who get out of the house. And they are the ones who will have to go through the violence.
Speaker 2:When people say that they have to try, it's because they have already done tests. Yes, they have done tests. They have been married, they have been in the room, they have been looking at each other, they have done everything, but because they haven't done the tests, they have a gynecologist. But if there is no gynecologist, then, ladies and gentlemen, we are not talking about the people who are old because even the father is a gynecologist.
Speaker 2:No, nothing. We are not talking about that. We are not talking about that. It's not that. We are talking about gynecologists. If there is a doctor, the doctor will tell him that he has to do a gynecologist for him because he is not using any material to apply it. But the doctor said that he is not going to do it. He is going to do another test for him in the blood. That means that people who love him are going to know him and those who are proud of him. They are not going to do any tests for him in the management because he is old.
Speaker 1:But he is going to do a sonogram for him.
Speaker 2:He is going to do a sonogram he is going to do you can do for him. So that's why I say that marriage is not prepared. It's a bag. I can say that even until I finish here. Sometimes, the bag that we finish in our world, it is not removed because of religion and society, but all conditions are met to put the bag back For the person to take it, For the person to take it but if he takes it, he will be able to return it there For the fact that you are a priest, for the fact that you are a priest.
Speaker 2:But if you are a priest you have to be able to do everything, because it's too complicated, it's not something that you can do at the first place.
Speaker 1:Well, especially when you see people who don't know you like me, since I was little, I was raised in the Catholic Church and when you see people who make you understand and who, after getting married, that we don't have to marry again. The church, it's all a complication. Religion can contribute to complicate life.
Speaker 2:But I'm not going to talk about that, I'm not going to go into too much detail. What I want to say is that in my opinion, there are two things that must be said about religion.
Speaker 1:Religion and society.
Speaker 2:Because religion. It speaks to the difference between the religion you are in, the society you are in, everything that you have in common when you are divorced. So we are going to return to the part that says that you don't need to have real sex before marriage. It's for personal pleasure, or to have sex before marriage or whatever, but not because you don't need's, because there are too many things that make them not have the right people. First of all, what do you think about people who are in sex work? I'm not saying that it's not because they don't have the right people. It's just that they are looking for it. They see if they have done blood tests, if they have done tests to see if the sperm is good, if the ovary is good, if there is no adhesion, if there is no problem, if there are complications, does it have a problem or is there a complication?
Speaker 1:Yes, there is a good percentage. I have never thought about it and I have done some research and I have shown that the percentage that we have that is able to be pregnant or not.
Speaker 2:So if it makes you incompatible with the person you work with, then we have entered the last part that has to do with sexuality. We take the fertility aspect, we take the other aspect that has to do with spermatozoa and all that stuff, but we also take the other aspect, the sexual nature. There are many people who are sexually attracted to men. There are people like Sigmund Freud, who treated himself as a masochist. There are also people who are sadomasochists. Masochists are people who are attracted to men because they are sexually attracted to them. They are attracted to them because they are gay. I was in a hotel. I was done with the big slap. That's it. I was in a hotel. I was done with the big slap. Sadomasochists themselves. They know people like that. They know people like that. They know people like that. They are disgusted by people like that. They are disgusted by people like that. You marry a woman, for example. You look at the Netflix people who watch. I don't know if you can read it on Netflix they watch 365, gagné.
Speaker 2:Fifty Shades of Grey number one, number two, three. So, people like that. You have to know if you have a son who kills someone, you have to take a man you are a woman.
Speaker 1:A man is a man, he is a man.
Speaker 2:Yes, a man is a man and you are a woman. You are a woman.
Speaker 1:I don't know if I am satisfied with that.
Speaker 2:You are not satisfied, but you are sick. If you are a woman, you are a woman because sex workers say that when a woman has a low matrice, it is not every position that she can do. You can force her to satisfy her needs, but you can't direct her to a low matrice and you can't make her fall into infidelity because the matrix has a problem. We have a matrix cancer when we make decisions in opposition to what we think is natural.
Speaker 1:Yes, even objects that we have used.
Speaker 2:We don't even think about objects, we think about the natural physical aspect.
Speaker 2:Because sometimes the object to control your mind In Objel, it's like you're in Objel, you hear the sound of the street, but it's not there. It's the sound of the street. It's not a satisfaction and then psychologically it's not satisfying. You feel that it's satisfying, but then you feel like you're in a matrix Because, dr Beatrice, every morning she goes to the service, she does this, she does that for five minutes every morning. She does that, she does that, she does that. She does that five minutes a day on Mondays, five minutes on Wednesdays. If she does it on Sunday, she will have a black spot. If she continues to do that, she will have a problem.
Speaker 1:Because we are constantly putting pressure on yourself. That is not made for that.
Speaker 2:That is not made for that. The problem of matriculation is because you take too many hits in relation to the partners you have when you are not with the masochist nature. Sadomasochist, it means that you takes pleasure in suffering and we don't even see that as a natural thing. Big problem. So it's not because we don't want to discuss it with people. That's what makes it so. We are not obliged to talk all the time about our sexual past. But the important thing sometimes is to join our feet to not get caught. Get a better life.
Speaker 2:Or we don't need to pass, but we can debate about sexuality. I talked to my church. We don't have to go to church to have a sexual debate. It's a hypocrisy. We don't have time to talk about sexuality, to not fall in love, because then we say oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh oh say oh, oh, oh. What is?
Speaker 1:she doing yes because it is important to know that, understand, because there are people who create their own desires or their own ways in sexual activity and there are people who are we have a complete sexual activity. So we have to use the tools we have, we have to use the practices we have and we have to know how to partner with ourselves. Are we partners who understand that we have a clear direction or a clear vision and we can use both of these or a vision? It's to use both places or at least to be comfortable. That's why it's important, because we are engaged in this marriage and it's our right to have our preferences. Which one? To have my preferences or not, my salary or not Big problem.
Speaker 2:Because the only thing that comes to mind is sodomy. Anal sex, because anal sex is called oral sex, even though in Haitian language we speak about the term zonyon, a vulgar expression that concerns. We have to keep that in mind. I think that girls or boys should not have a problem with putting a mouthpiece in their anus. If they have anal sex and then they do that kind of activity, it's not natural for that person to suffer.
Speaker 2:When someone falls, it's because of infidelity. Because they don't understand that they are in the same situation as the other person, they do the same thing to their children to their children, to their children to their children.
Speaker 1:When someone has a disease, they don't do it.
Speaker 2:They don't do it. They do it themselves. It's not like they are in Brazil's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. It's not the same thing. I'm not satisfied with this, but I have to do it, but I don't have to do it, but I have to learn to do it, so that sex is not always methodical, because sex is what changes a person's life. It doesn't always have to be in the bedroom, in the kitchen, in the gallery. We went to the 5-star hotel, we went to the 3-star hotel, we went to the countryside, so that we can put in a lot of vigor so that we don't come to the city to think that it is always incompatible Because, as we said earlier, sometimes we have to think that incompatibility with their parents.
Speaker 2:They say to themselves I don't know what I want, I don't know what I want, and each time we want to go somewhere else. Well, we're talking about incompatibility anyway when we think we're going to walk together, while they don't have any incompatibility with their parents. It's communication that parents have. Parents have compromises together and then, from adaptation Because we don't know what to do we make compromises to learn to do it together. So we need time to be able to adapt, adjustment and adaptation.
Speaker 2:So what we do is, if we are not able to say that we have incompatibilities, all the the period, when we are adults or when we are old, like when we are 50, 60, 70 years old, we try to keep the sexual customs that we are able to keep. And then we agree that age plays a very important role, that the age of play is of great importance. We talked about it. We talked about social, educational and the last thing we take from these spirituals. On the other hand, we ourselves, we say that the age of play plays a role neither in the financial aspect nor in the sexual aspect. Because, dr Beatrice, if you have a young age, you have to know that if you have a child, you don't need to buy it. Relax, if you have a child, you don't need to buy it. You don't need to buy it at that age. You can always go to school, but school is not a priority at this time. You always need to buy it, but you don't need to buy it because Because if you can't do it in 30 or 40 years, you don't even think you have 30 years to live. Or even if you have more than 30 years to live, you don't activate it. It means that you don't have it. You can say that it poses a problem, but it doesn't mean that it poses a problem.
Speaker 2:Problems Even people who have had a series of sexual practices, twenty sexual practices that they have gained twenty, forty, fifty years. They have been able to descend. They have been able to descend. It's not all the things that are not done in marriage. So they say well, there are things that we will not talk about as incompatibilities. Incompatibilities, no, there is no relationship of incompatibilities. Itatibility, no. The problem with incompatibility is that when we life does not allow us to respond with society's demands or when we do not allow us to respond with the demands that our brain does not give us, so that's reality life.
Speaker 2:That's reality, life, the brain that has to say that well. Well, I'm here, I feel that it has to be done, it has to be done, it has to be done, and that Sometimes you have to command your own self. Maybe you are thinking that you are a short-lived person, you are thinking that you are 20 years old and you are thinking that way, but you are not there yet.
Speaker 1:You are 30 years old, you are 20 years old. You are already 50 years old. You are still 36 years old, before you were even 50, you were still an atheist.
Speaker 2:Ah, that's right. So the last part of that, if we talk about the spiritual aspect, every religion has its own customs. Every religion has its own customs. On the other hand, we Catholics are not married to Catholics like that, even if every Protestant says he is not married to a Protestant, even if every Muslim says he is not married to a Protestant. Buddhists say that they are not married to a Catholic. They are not married to a Protestant. Buddhists, the married people, the Catholic community, the married people with a Protestant. So there are always exceptions in all these matters, but the basis is because the prayer rituals are different and Muslims, on the other hand, they it's not enough to pray. It's not enough to pray for a thousand, two thousand, three thousand years. It's not enough to pray for a thousand, two thousand, three thousand years.
Speaker 1:Why do you have to pray? Do you have to pray five or six times a day? Why do you?
Speaker 2:have to pray. So if you have a very complex problem, or if you don't have a good way to get up, or if you have to cut your hair or whatever, then it so it's a problem. So what we Muslims know is that the problem is that we have to go to the other side. Imagine the park is full of people.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:We have to go to the other side. But if we know that we have to go to the other side, we have to go to the other side. We have to go. That you can't take it. Everyone in themselves is in the same place. But if Jesus is in the same place, if he is in the same place, you have to learn that. You have to know that you can't take it?
Speaker 1:There is no place for that. Because people have a mentality you understand. They have to be in a relationship with a mentality or a hope you have to change it. People don't change the world.
Speaker 2:Everything is unchangeable. Change comes naturally. Change comes if God wants to change it or if nature wants to change it and we have to want to change everything. So we have to realize that we are here first.
Speaker 1:How to be here first To change it. And how it is interesting that it is here. Thank you very much.
Speaker 2:So we realize that we are first, we have to change and we have a place to go. Thank you very much. So, saïro, in the same spiritual aspect, when these young people or these old people come, we have to treat them with our own faith. Can we all pray together? Because, beatrice, in this case, whatever religion you have, since you have two different gods, you can't walk. That's the spiritual aspect. If you pray, good God, in the name of Jesus or if you pray in the name of Mary spiritual conflict. Or if you say to yourself Allah and then you say to yourself Jesus, spiritual conflict the other person says it is Allah, the other person says it is Jesus.
Speaker 1:Spiritual conflict, unless, we all have a strong connection with God.
Speaker 2:So I am not saying that I am baptizing myself in the name of the Catholic, but if I am practicing, yes, but if you get married, whatever you are practicing, you will get married and you will say, no, I will not marry you. You will say that you are not married. You will not be able to have peace. So what we have to say, together with Zaminou, is that the incompatibility problem is to try to treat us first, before the marriage. And if we want to get married, we can treat incompatibility. We can cheat with our partners so that we can communicate, so that we can adjust our relationship. But first we have to compromise. We have to be able compromises between ourselves, Otherwise we will be in trouble, we will be looking for them, we will be praying, we will be crying and then religion and society will be in trouble until we die.
Speaker 2:Until we die, until we die.
Speaker 1:Okay, so I'm going to learn a little bit. I'm going to teach you a little bit today. I have a few questions for you. The first question I have for you what is the difference between the objective value or the communication style that contributed to incompatibility?
Speaker 2:As I said earlier, incompatibility is treated in a way For young people, they treat their incompatibility before marriage. When I say young, it's not related to age. I'm talking about people who can have a daughter, a husband, a wife, a husband, and the second part. I'll answer a question that Dr Beatrice asked me earlier. If your relationship is already there, you need Chita to communicate your needs. If you don't communicate, you won't be able to do it. Period, you won't be able to force yourself to do it Because you won't be able to do it.
Speaker 2:Give me an example If you have to give yourself to someone, I'll give you two examples Someone who is 50 years old and then all of this is to earn a living in the community, so that people who know the community can earn a living. And in these 50 years I hope that I will never have a good job. I hope so. 50 years you never have a good job. You don't need it. If you put your heart into it. Pray to Jesus. Jesus Christ will not do miracles, but if you work to earn a living negative Because you don't have a home to pay for 30 years.
Speaker 1:And that's it, madam, or the other part of the world people are going to go back to reality. You understand that a project is a beautiful project, but it's not a project that we can realize.
Speaker 2:Second aspect, my third sexual aspect. If someone is 50 years old, 55 years old, but we have been married for 25-30 years, there are some sexual positions that you have to be convinced of at 55 years old, that you are not flexible enough to go to school Change of position. On the contrary, in the same time, you have to be strong in your own way. You have to be able to be strong in your own way and even if you have a bad cramp, I will take it without any financial help.
Speaker 1:And for you, sir, who always complains that you are not in a good condition, that you are not in a good condition, that you are not in a good condition, that you are not in a good condition if you have a message to send. Who always seeks even flexibility, that, while madam is 55, 55 years old, you have a message for your work. Who is there? Or ladies?
Speaker 2:you all understand. It's like if it was a young culture, but I'm 70, 80 years old.
Speaker 1:I always thought that even if I was 33 years old, I would still be able to do it?
Speaker 2:No, it's not like that. That's why I'm telling you, ladies and gentlemen, if you're a young girl who needs to do activities, you should be careful with the things you do, and then, ladies and gentlemen, I you can come and pay attention to them. You think that guys are more satisfied with penetration, but no, guys are not satisfied with penetration. Penetration is in the head, in the neck, when they do the ejaculation. Even if you are a professional, you have to do the ejaculation before. There are many techniques for you to do, the right techniques to treat them quickly. So it's important to know that, even with people who have been with us for a long time we know who can call, who can be sensitive, who can make a sound, who can tell us to go to bed?
Speaker 1:Yes, we have to call them to help us. We can't be together with them.
Speaker 2:If we have people who are starting to enter the girl isn't she. You can't say that to your husband. If you have a man who starts to enter into your life, you can't do anything about it. Even if you have a sadomasochist, you can't say that to him. You can't say that to him. When you have this system, it doesn't work. And all the girls I have sex with when I'm with my sex, they work more than women in Brazil. If a woman works hard and works overtime, she will not have sex or she will not work at all. For a man who does not work at all, he is a bad guy A lot. We will talk about that later. Because men do not have a problem with their bodies if they don't have a problem with their health. Even girls don't have to work in the gym, but it's true, when they go out they work and they feel like they are in a good place. If they don't work, they don't have a problem with their health.
Speaker 1:Oh no, but it's like if you go to the gym and you take a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful point, and I remember that I was talking to a young man while I was doing my hair in the studio. He was talking and he showed me his big beard and he said that there are people who do their body work not supposed to work, not only to wear beautiful posters and then work again. But you are a prostitute, you say, but Samy, there are people who are young, who are in the youth area.
Speaker 2:No, because you are a prostitute, you have to sell your body. Yes, in fact. For example the boy, it's the same thing. I know that you don't have a choice, but if you have a choice, you have to be a prostitute. For example the boy, he's good, he's got a job, etc. For example the boy, you don't have to do any of that.
Speaker 2:You don't have to do anything, but he's been in the gym for 8 years. Yes, because it's prostitutes. It, for example, a cop. He is not a cop in any of the things he wants. He is a prostitute.
Speaker 1:There are boys who have a little blood. They are not very sweet. They don't have a personality either. No, they are not.
Speaker 2:So to answer your question, no matter what the boy is, and be careful with the age that the girl is to be able to respond with the desire to do things or her desire, because the man can always put things back in the way he wants.
Speaker 1:Okay, so the next question I'm going to ask you is who has the incompatibility that has an impact on the?
Speaker 2:There is a lot of relationship, so much incompatibility that you can traumatize it, and that's why we who do this line, we always have to report our melangeur and then for us to treat this traumatization Does it affect people's lives?
Speaker 1:Does it lead to anxiety, stress, depression, all that?
Speaker 2:We use depression in life. Stress is too weak, anxiety is too weak. We take depression because it can do it when we are all together.
Speaker 1:Yes, but it's one that leads to the other, because anxiety has not been treated or addressed properly. Stress is not treated, anxiety is treated, anxiety is not treated, and then depression comes.
Speaker 2:So it makes you take everything in the last.
Speaker 1:You take everything in the last.
Speaker 2:Because depression is depression that makes you seek help, to pray in pile, to seek out people, sometimes to seek out someone to confess to.
Speaker 1:Depression war isolation.
Speaker 2:Yes, and people who are not stopped. They kill you all the time. Yes, because of the incompatibility that they discover in the relationship. It's going to happen right. Since then they have been doing it because they are there. So we have to explain that in the beginning of my mission. We have to find the first thing since the day we started doing it, we have to open the machine, the restaurant, the bar, etc. Because everything is there. It's since then that it's been there. So if you ask for problems, the big problem is that there are people who commit suicide. You don't know why they are going to commit suicide. It's because they have a secret book that always says everything that happened. But after a while they hide a secret book that says everything that happened.
Speaker 1:So you're saying that people are not going to live.
Speaker 2:They are not going to live. I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm sorry I didn't say the name.
Speaker 1:No because no one Because able to do it, they will not do it.
Speaker 2:No because there are no people Because Fiat has taken over.
Speaker 1:And there are no people who have the communication.
Speaker 2:And that's why I say, whatever the person who is in charge, they are not in agreement to not stress out to be able to do it, because they need people who are able to do it. They need people who are able to do it to see that they are capable of it.
Speaker 1:Okay, we have to ask ourselves the next question which is a strategy or a technique that we can use? But in the end, we have to do it. But there are people like us who are cold-blooded, who want to preserve their private lives and they say, oh, I want to have a chita to the palace to live in the privy, especially in our culture.
Speaker 2:In our culture. It is the case that many people are very bad in it. First, they do not believe in the scientific aspect, that they can go to the 46th floor. Secondly, they cannot talk to people and the 46th floor is an element that is not there, or the religious 46th floor, for example, even if automatically, I am counted as the number one in the business.
Speaker 2:If I am the one who is involved in the prayer. I am always involved in the prayer, but I don't have to do the treatment together. I don't have to do the curing the curing of the woman I don't have to do the treatment together. And then I don't have to do the treatment together with the pastor. I am the one who are specialists in the field Because they have to be doctors to treat these people.
Speaker 1:We have to understand that I understand and I know that, even if, as a pastor, we can't encourage or push people to leave relationships, but sometimes the way you can help to solve the problem is to say that you won and that religion after religion, but relationships with God to go beyond religion or to be able to live life beyond his society, as you think. I know the easiest way to say yes, pastor Breville.
Speaker 2:So we have even built that, but Christians have a person. I know that this is a familiar thing, but it's a different topic. There is a person who makes a choice.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:Which means that when the problem is posed in a relationship, the Christian person addresses him with God or the Bible, together with us, and then the Christian faith does not say that we should not divorce, because if the relationship is a fall element for you because you traumatized someone in your relationship, if Jesus comes he will not leave. Everyone who is traumatized in their relationship is a kind of suicide. So if the relationship does not work, you can leave. There is this question of remarrying. Who are we able to marry to not sin? It's not related to the choice. There is no need to develop it. But no matter how we are, we are not going to leave. We have to play our strategy Check this, check that, check that, and then we are not going to leave, and then you don't work. And then every time you go through this incompatibility, incompatibility, incompatibility, you see you can't do anything about it. It's like a regulation.
Speaker 1:Yes, because in fact, Julian, it's to keep you. You understand, and who knows like if? But your relationship is unbalanced To see like if.
Speaker 2:What you did before but, as you know, it's at the end, it's in the middle of the relationship. Look at it. Is it more lost to leave the relationship than to win? You have to do that. Yes, Sometimes people who leave the relationship, they lose more. Sometimes everything that is retained in the relationship they lose more. So you have to balance it. Maybe no one else has done something like that, as if we have learned to balance it to see who has an advantage in the relationship. Sometimes, we have the advantage in the relationship.
Speaker 1:Yes, because sometimes, as if we are happy that people speak our culture and that, especially when we are with people, it is only people who have an advantage in the relationship.
Speaker 1:And when you're with someone who says I'm not obligated to tolerate someone, even if I know that they're good. They're good, they're that, they're that, but I want to educate them on my own. I respect that, I respect the choice of people in that sense, but if we're going to have a dialogue about it, I, if we have a solid dialogue, we will have a good point to develop, definitely. Last question for you before we close the show who is the couple who has a solid connection and who has a healthy relationship all the time, whatever?
Speaker 2:the couple, who is in absolute health.
Speaker 1:We know that.
Speaker 2:But if you are in a solid figure, you are not in health.
Speaker 1:Ok, a big word from the past.
Speaker 2:Yes, I know where you are going, but I'm not going to go there Because Solid connections in a pile of cold, that's what society has told us to do. We have to go there with machines, with the machines in our hands, to go out to the gym as if everyone was there to witness. For us. And then society says, ah yes, that's the relationship.
Speaker 1:It's solid and people believe it.
Speaker 2:Yes, it's solid. I remember the example that happened to me today, and then I smiled. My father told me in the store that I was gone Because my father, he passed away from a cold smile. We didn't know that. But in the morning, while I was in the general check-up, we went to the side and I felt like eating Haitian pâtis. I was not going to eat Haitian pâtis. And then I went with Madame Mouin to greet the Showa community. I followed the FISE.
Speaker 1:Yes, we greeted them.
Speaker 2:And then we came going to eat and then we ended up having a discussion and then he said, no, it's not good for you, I don't agree to eat that. Then he said, well, I don't agree to eat that. I said, well, I'll go get a coffee. He said no, no, I don't agree to eat that. And we had such a fight, such a fight, such a fight.
Speaker 2:So I said I was going to talk to you about the story and then a lady who was in there, who was telling the story, she said it's sure that since the beginning my name is not good. And then I said no, it's Madame Olié. She said yes, I know you, it's Madame Olié, but the authority is on you to say but it's for eating. But it's Madame Olié, but the authority is not enough to say that it's for eating or not. It's certain that since we were young, we have been living in the same place, in the same school, in the same university, in the same way, etc. Maybe it's just a projection of the image the society is trying to project the things that they have to say about their relationship with him, to contrast what happened. What if all he can do is suffice? What if all of this is not enough.
Speaker 1:Or if financially it's the same thing. It's like a capcom or if financially it is the same as the CAPCOM that is, the society is there.
Speaker 2:The ICHI is under projection. Health and relationships are not important for it, but it is the solidity of the relationship and that's why when you are stuck, you are very solid. The virus is not going to get you, it's not going to hurt you, no-transcript. So that's why people who have followed us be careful to be in a relationship. It's health-relation and then a relationship in a solid health. Who are those who are in a healthy relationship is first communication we put Christ in the Bible communication, fidelity, sincerity, honesty.
Speaker 2:Respect, too Respect is what we are talking about. If I take respect from the other party, then the 4th Psalm says that it is communication, fidelity, honesty, sincerity that you have in your relationship.
Speaker 1:And these 4 things must be reciprocated.
Speaker 2:We have to communicate with each other. Respect. We have to leave respect forever. We must have fidelity to reciprocity, sincerity to the reciprocated, honesty to the reciprocated. Then, if we take a general aspect that is biblical, theological, spiritual, it is that the Apostle Paul spoke about this together with the people of Ephesus in Ephesians, chapter 5, she finally said that women respect their husbands and husbands love their wives. Boys have a role. There is a big difference in my daughter Respect. That's why every girl who has a boy, when he goes out with someone, he takes time to forgive him, or he doesn't him or not forgive him, even if he is in a relationship.
Speaker 2:Mary loved her mother. I want to explain to you what I mean by loving your mother, as Paul explained in 1 Corinthians 13. Love is patient. I have to say that I am angry. I am very patient. Love is full of goodness. Love hopes everything, believes everything, supports everything. I have to say that I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry, I am angry. Less supportive because they love her less. And the Apostle Peter also talked about the outside appearance, the inner appearance, which is what men are always looking for in women. The inner appearance, because it is not the outside appearance that is braided, beautiful makeup or white makeup.
Speaker 2:It's not that that's what you need, because we are talking about health. Health and business are the inner appearance that are not even linked in reality.
Speaker 1:That's why we talk about inner beauty, inner beauty.
Speaker 2:Are we not wise, respectful people? Because no matter who works, they always need a quality wife. But for a wife who has a quality husband, she must be able to love her wife. It's not like I'm saying I love you, I love you. I have explained everything to everyone. I think that in Porto, when we talked with Pope Francis, he said that you have to love your wife. When he says man is the head of the woman, like Christ is the head of the Church, who has delivered himself from the people who have ignored him man is the head of the woman.
Speaker 1:Like Christ has delivered the Church the part of her that we ignore.
Speaker 2:She loves her husband as much as Christ loved him, but Christ himself does not take it himself. When you are with Mary, you must pray to bring love to her.
Speaker 1:You must sacrifice yourself when you are with Mary.
Speaker 2:You must pray to her. So Mary, who is healthy, knows that she is submissive to you. You have to submit to her because she is not obedient. The same goes for Mary. She needs to love her and young people, or people who are not young but who not in the same age group as you. Make sure you have a test of love for those who can function in this business To see if in reality they are good gentlemen who have a good relationship with you.
Speaker 1:And if someone asks you a question, what test of love do you have? If you can give me some examples, who do you trust?
Speaker 2:95% of all of us. Okay, amen. For example, who would you choose?
Speaker 1:95% of the time it's God. Okay, amen.
Speaker 2:For example, open the door. You know there are five points that are very important. The question is if you are at the table and you are eating, you are not going to leave the food in the same place. Not there, you are going to leave it in the same place. The question is, my choice of food is to take it and put it on the floor, but not leave it there. Take it and put it on the floor Because you can put it on the floor After 5-10 years. You can put it on the floor and when it's cold or when it's cold, you can cover it with a blanket.
Speaker 1:It will cover it.
Speaker 2:Because it's decided to keep it there. While you put it there, I tell them to leave it there because it's not good for you. I was the first one to come. While we were sleeping, we were saying to each other that we would have breakfast together, because we would have breakfast all the time, because we would go to bed on Monday to Friday, and then it was the same thing, and then on Saturday we would have breakfast together. I remember that I was the only one who ran the machine on Wednesdays and Fridays. I don't know if it's because of the machine or the food, or the clothes, but it's all about the bed, no, but even if you don't do it you take responsibility.
Speaker 2:So these are series of gestures that make people want to live. On the other hand, they feel that it is not simply a domestic duty that everyone takes into account, but at the same time, they feel that they are a princess or that they are a queen, because any girl who thinks that she is a woman to be proud of there is no problem, because if she is a woman, she must be a queen she must be a queen.
Speaker 2:It is not a good thing Unless she have a good person to take care of you. Or if you have a good person to take care of you, you have to follow the good people who are at home and at the same time it ends up being that we have to consider our rights, Consider the rights of the people who have started, the rights of the people who have lived, and precisely because there are people who are not supposed to be authorized to say Amen, no. No.
Speaker 1:You understand Well Pastor Brevin in all prayers say Amen. And I think we have arrived at the time to say Amen.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 1:But I have one thing to say to you thank you.
Speaker 2:All the glory to God.
Speaker 1:Amen Church. Let's say Amen, because today Pastor Breville is a good cause. Pastor Breville, I thank you for taking me. Thank you for taking me and moving me. We take it to adjust the schedule, to put the themes in the program. As long as we take it to leave all activities and other things to hide there today in the studio and do things together with us, and all traffic all, all the time, etc. I have to say thank you. This is a moment that I really appreciate. It's a moment that you really built me up on several points. I believe that all the people who have watched you, you, have felt that you have built yourself up in one way or another.
Speaker 1:We are today, in this first day that you were invited to participate in the show, but it is not supposed to be the last day. It is not the end, but I am not going to talk about the beginning of the show and I don't know if it is politeness that I am going to say, or at least it is because we are so familiar with technology that we are not going to talk about beginning. We did it at the end and there are things that we didn't do because we were so happy to see Pastebreville start and to get back to the subject together with us and to formally present Pastebreville, or at least model to present it. Pastebreville, or at least Mandel to present his head, pastor Breville, we will go to those who want to perform, to those who are in the church, who are made in this community.
Speaker 2:First of all, thank you very much for giving us, taking us and laying us in the feet of Jesus, so we can say to God be the glory, Say to God be the glory. And then we thank everyone the church, the side that we lead, who is Rafa Christian Ministries, who has been working on this, and then Elder Sulfiz, who is Mrs Moué, together with a little woman, Clara, who is now in Echowa, greeted us and then thanked us all because she gave us the opportunity to be here and that's what we say from the bottom of our hearts because we didn't choose to go to the road, to pray, to do nothing. It's because I'm in conflict with my family.
Speaker 1:Very important.
Speaker 2:Naturally I'm concerned and that's why we're teaching in Choyo. It's the kind of thing we live. We live well here, me and my son. We've been living here for about 21-22 years, 5 years in a row and then 15 years of marriage. As for our relationship, I have been with Sulfis because of incompatibility.
Speaker 1:Because we have the faculty to communicate our incompatibilities for five years.
Speaker 2:No, it's not the same. We don't have the same. Because since I was little, I never wanted to enter into conflictual relationships and that's why, whatever the conflict, I never participated in the same work as I did. In university. I had constructive debates, but if I was left-wing, right-wing, or left, right, left, right, left, right, left, right, left, right, left, right, left, right, left, right, left, left, right, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, right, left, left, left, right, left, left that allow us to function well, to breathe well it's not breathing oxygen, but in a way that works for everyone, because we are all friends. We have a professional relationship with some people which is more of a professional relationship than a professional relationship, but in terms of friendship, we are in a framework that four female motivators, because we need to serve God in a way that makes him happy.
Speaker 2:So we were pastors in the Christian Ministries, which is in Queens, in the Hallis area, queens Village, and then, as we were told, in terms of well, we could not even talk about professional affairs, but we got a bachelor's degree in diplomacy and then we were certified in several branches in theology, for example, church administration as a youth, ok in in general, family counsellor, and then we are certified in homiletics and hermetic. We are always there. But above all we are service providers in the community at all levels. And then when we serve, we don't choose a service that is Protestant, only to serve, not to serve like that in a professional way. God put it on our heads. It's for us to serve and educate people. When people enter the church, they are given a more closed-off training than we can offer. All the training we offer is open to them. We don't offer training that only that Catholic Christians can learn, and whatever religion.
Speaker 1:We put a universal training.
Speaker 2:They are universal training. So when I went to theology school, I announced everything to myself, because each field will always be able to take as a source of reference so we are happy because you invited us. It's not the last time and we are happy and it's a pleasure to have you here, because coffee is coffee.
Speaker 1:Everything that comes from coffee is something that I remember I took advantage of the fact that I was in my own country.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, I'm not drinking your juice, you're drinking your sugar cane and you're drinking your canation and you're drinking your coffee. Boost it up. So I think that's where I came in and I want to say thank you to all the technical staff in the studio and I hope that all the information we have here is good for us, for our body, for our spirit, and then share the show with several people, and then not only share it but subscribe together with this page so that the work can go further. Thank you again, dr Beatrice, for your opportunity.
Speaker 1:Thank you very much and I want to take this moment to greet Madam with little daughter, who gave us the opportunity to come and spend this moment together with us. We want to greet all the faithful in the church and that I believe that there is an opportunity to look and share and then, on this occasion, it is a's a privilege for you to be able to debate on this subject and once again it was Dr Beatrice Hippolyte, the Paula. Show your world.